Did you have make your own style that really suit on you?
I already found my style and that not using any lora, adetailer, vae, or embedding.
So what did i do? found the check point that really suit on me. I have several list checkpoint that suit on me.
What's next? using quality prompt like
masterpiece, best quality, absurdres, newest
After using that, try to match with several style like
monochrome, sepia, limited palette, flat color, high contrast, bokeh
There so much prompt about lighting and coloring. Shadow too.
If you like artist style or anime style you can use
\(by artist\) like \(by kawacy\)
for anime style can add (city hunter), (bleach)
tbh, the tag not listened as you wish. They will follow the most iconic. Example kawacy have style playing with monochrome it will show monochrome even you add colorful on prompt. Bleach will follow kurosaki ishiki visual that really iconic or Attack on titan will follow levi visual since levi more iconic than eren. The most annoying is city hunter, that your character will turn to Ryou Saeba even your character have so many different visual.
Last, since it need trial and error. it will cost your credit. Good luck 😉